To Be Or Not To Be

Hello readers, today's hot topic is "To be or not to be", is it our choice?

Well, if you ask me its not, because we are born the way we are. Some people think that some events in our past and a sequence of misfortune lead us to become gay. But that's not the truth, its just an assumption, a point of view to try and justify why we are the way we are. Why is so hard to understand that its not a byproduct of some things that happened in the past, its who we are meant to be. The only thing is we found out a little late, but at least we know now. A few of my straight friends keep trying to convince me that I'm not gay. Its just a phase and blah blah blah.... but they don't seem to understand that an individual's identity is not a phase. Believe it or not, we were born this way. And I cant blame them for being scared and not understanding us, because people are scared of things they don't understand or they don't want to believe in. They will try and reason with you, call you abnormal, suggest therapy and force you to pretend. The FAQ's by straight people are

• How do you know your Gay?
• If you've never been with a man, How do you know you don't like them?
• Maybe you didn't find the right guy.... ( as if he is the one :P )
• Were you sexually harassed as a child?

All of them think we are sick or something like that and that's why they try to fix us.... Hello...!! we are not a leaking taps that you're trying to fix us, nothings wrong.... is it that hard to understand...!!
I just try and imagine how things would be, if being gay was the right thing and being straight was a crime (Almost Normal: perfect example). But I'm sure things will change with time and there will come a point were we all are happy being who we are.

Its not a matter of choice, being gay. Nobody gave us options and asked us to pick one (Gay or Straight). We cant choose who to be, but we can be proud of who we are. Many religions say that being gay is a sin, and God will punish us for it. How can this be a sin, how can loving someone be a sin, how can it be a sin to loves God's own creation? People say that our fate is in God's hand, so how is it wrong when we being women love women, when it is our fate. People believe, what they want to believe in, see what they want to see, but why cant they see that love is beyond everything..... its pure and sacred.

If someone asked me to choose between being gay or straight (which is not stupid, as we all know), I would choose to be a lesbian. I would choose women over men.... over and over again. No therapy, great guy, medication, lock down is going to stop me from loving God's greatest creation among all....... "Women".

All those lesbians out there be proud be Happy because this is what we are meant to be.

Movies for this week:

• Almost Normal : http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0466669/
• My Normal : http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1117983/
• A Marine Story : http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1447479/
• Serving in Silence: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114395/

That's all for today ladies........