Lesbians = Humans

I would like to ask one question to all the people who believe in religion, who believe in God, who believe in humanity, is it ok for you to just sit back and watch the LGBT community suffer? Is it ok that we kill ourselves in vain and in depression because you think that its against the religion to be gay? Can anyone justify it.

Its just sad and painful that people say things have changed, that we are civilized and have rights but at the same time these rights aren't for the LGBT community. They tell us that we have the right to live and at the same time kill us for who we are. Who gave them the right to decide what's right and whats wrong, who made them God? that they think killing, beating up and bullying lesbian and gay people is the right thing to do.

There was a time when two people from different races or religions couldn't be together, because the society wouldn't except it. Just replace the word "race" or "religion" with homosexuality, its the same story but different characters. People are scared of everything which is different from them, but this cannot be used as an excuse to discriminate anyone. We are society, we people of all religion, race & sexuality combine together to form a society. Its not a decision which can be made by an individual, we as a society make decisions. And no society can say that its wrong to love someone no matter which race they belong to or religion or gender.

Ever since gay  people started coming out, they have been tortured, bullied, beaten up and even killed. Just because we are different??... How are we different, is the color of our blood not red, don't we breathe oxygen, aren't we Humans? What is it that makes us different from any other human. NOTHING..!!!! We are Humans and we all are alike, people don't have the right to judge or discriminate us based on who we sleep with. Isn't it against humanity, that this violent behavior is justified  just because some people think that being gay is a sin. Well its about time these people open their eyes and except the reality.

If there are 2 people who say that gay-ism is a sin there will be 4 people who will embrace themselves for being gay. We are humans and we will fight for equality, we will fight for what we believe in, we will fight for freedom, and we will WIN, if not today then tomorrow.

Say NO to discrimination
Say NO to Bullying
Say NO to Homophobia

Coz we are HUMANS and we have the right to Live and Love.

Movies related to this post:

• Clapham Junction
• Equality U
• Boys Don't Cry

To Be Or Not To Be

Hello readers, today's hot topic is "To be or not to be", is it our choice?

Well, if you ask me its not, because we are born the way we are. Some people think that some events in our past and a sequence of misfortune lead us to become gay. But that's not the truth, its just an assumption, a point of view to try and justify why we are the way we are. Why is so hard to understand that its not a byproduct of some things that happened in the past, its who we are meant to be. The only thing is we found out a little late, but at least we know now. A few of my straight friends keep trying to convince me that I'm not gay. Its just a phase and blah blah blah.... but they don't seem to understand that an individual's identity is not a phase. Believe it or not, we were born this way. And I cant blame them for being scared and not understanding us, because people are scared of things they don't understand or they don't want to believe in. They will try and reason with you, call you abnormal, suggest therapy and force you to pretend. The FAQ's by straight people are

• How do you know your Gay?
• If you've never been with a man, How do you know you don't like them?
• Maybe you didn't find the right guy.... ( as if he is the one :P )
• Were you sexually harassed as a child?

All of them think we are sick or something like that and that's why they try to fix us.... Hello...!! we are not a leaking taps that you're trying to fix us, nothings wrong.... is it that hard to understand...!!
I just try and imagine how things would be, if being gay was the right thing and being straight was a crime (Almost Normal: perfect example). But I'm sure things will change with time and there will come a point were we all are happy being who we are.

Its not a matter of choice, being gay. Nobody gave us options and asked us to pick one (Gay or Straight). We cant choose who to be, but we can be proud of who we are. Many religions say that being gay is a sin, and God will punish us for it. How can this be a sin, how can loving someone be a sin, how can it be a sin to loves God's own creation? People say that our fate is in God's hand, so how is it wrong when we being women love women, when it is our fate. People believe, what they want to believe in, see what they want to see, but why cant they see that love is beyond everything..... its pure and sacred.

If someone asked me to choose between being gay or straight (which is not stupid, as we all know), I would choose to be a lesbian. I would choose women over men.... over and over again. No therapy, great guy, medication, lock down is going to stop me from loving God's greatest creation among all....... "Women".

All those lesbians out there be proud be Happy because this is what we are meant to be.

Movies for this week:

• Almost Normal : http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0466669/
• My Normal : http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1117983/
• A Marine Story : http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1447479/
• Serving in Silence: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114395/

That's all for today ladies........

Lesbian Interest

Have you ever had the feeling that your alone even when you are surrounded by people, that you are deprived of love even when there are people that adore and love you in every way possible? A feeling of emptiness that surrounds you, wherever you go, and no matter what you do, you cant fill your life with happiness and joy. That's the feeling you get, when you don't really know who you are. This is how I felt for a long time but didn't know what it was or why it was happening to me. But one day everything changes, just like magic and things start to make sense. That was the day when I realized I was a lesbian.

For some people its so easy to just say.... hey Im gay... but Im not sure if they even realize what they are saying. These days being gay has become a fashion, a trend and if not that, then just a way to feel the adrenaline rush in their body. People like these don't realize how much pain and suffering we had to go through to be where we are today ( By we I mean the Lesbian community). On second thought, they don't even have to know,  because when the time gets tough they can get back to their "normal" being and pretend nothing happened. But for all the genuine lesbians its not that simple or easy.

Lesbians have been in existence since the age of dinosaurs ( meaning; since a very long time ), but didn't come out or didn't know what it meant when they had feelings for another women. These women had to keep it a secret all their lives, and whoever stood up or came out to the world had to suffer consequences. Until the late 60's homosexuality was illegal in almost all the countries across the globe.  It was considered a sin, abnormal behavior, taboo, obscene and all the bad things people can think of.  We didn't have any rights or anyone to support us. But eventually things started to change in the early 80's thanks to media. Through movies people started to know that we existed but weren't sure how to react to it. Even in these movies the gay community was portrayed as the villans. Even in books, if a writer had a character who was attracted to a female character in the story, she would either die in the end or would end up with a guy. This portrays the mentality of the people, who can fantasize two women together but cant imagine them staying together happily as a couple. Our community had to struggle a lot for the rights that we deserved in the first place. During these protest many lesbians were beaten up, raped and killed just for being who they are. After all this struggle, pain and suffering we got the right to be who we are, but today's generation seems to be busy sleeping around with people and pretending to be gay. Because of people like these the whole community is judged.

These words might seem harsh but the fact of the matter is that young girls don't realize what it means when they say they are gay. Living in the Indian society they might be quite aware of the narrow mindedness and conservative nature of their parents and relatives. When they know that they don't have the courage to fight the society and stand up for who they are, they shouldn't get involved with anyone. And even worse sleep around with numerous partners and then get married to a guy. The bottom line is, either fight or don't enter the battle field at all.

There are so many things that need to be done, and so many topics to be discussed, which I will in my future posts. But for today I guess this much information is enough. In every post I will recommend LGBT movies which are related to what the post has to say. I hope you enjoy these movies and let me know your thoughts on it.

Movies for today's post are

• 8 The Mormon Proposition

• Forbidden Love: The Unashamed Stories of Lesbian Lives

• Fabulous! The Story of Queer Cinema 

    

   

   

   

Burning Desire

Hi,

I would like to greet the readers of this blog, Welcome !

Normally the first post begins with introductions and stuff like that, but that's not my style. So lets get to the point... the reason why I'm writing this blog..??.. That's the point were we should begin. Its very simple, to spread awareness and gain knowledge about the Lesbian community.

In this blog you will find all sorts of information which can help you take decisions and choose your lifestyle. But its not just about that, its more fun and interactive, which means I would be expecting your participation in helping me out to make this blog a source of information.

Our area of interest would be "Lesbians" and everything related to it. Like movies, Latest updates, health, lifestyle, sex, society and anything that comes in mind. By making this blog I intend to help form a society which accepts us for who we are, which is currently not happening. By joining hands and coming together we can achieve what we want and what we deserve.... To be who we are.

Lesbians..... how do we define ourselves...??..

• A female who is attracted to another female.
• A female who has sex with another female.
• Lesbian is a term most widely used in the English language to describe sexual and romantic desire between females ( Wikipedia)
• A homosexual Women

Can you identify yourself, with any of the definitions mentioned above?
If you do, then I must say you need to do some more digging in your heart and try to understand who you really are, because just being attracted to a women sexually doesn't make you gay. Its just a burning desire in your heart to be loved by someone who can love you back and pleasure you by all means. Being Lesbian is not just about sex and attraction, its more than that. It has a deeper meaning, more than any word or phrase in the English dictionary has to offer. It is who you are...and if you can define yourself.... then I would love to hear it.

Its clear as day, that we cant define ourselves just by one factor, i.e who we have sex with or who we are attracted to. We will discuss this and much more in my next post.

Till then have fun and embrace yourselves.

Long
Live
Lesbians ;)